Self-actualization is the pinnacle of human development. Maslow said it's what we all strive for, the top of that hierarchy he set up. The basic needs, food, safety, love, esteem – they all lead to this ultimate goal. But only a few get there. Life is full of distractions. It takes grit to dig deep, find your true self, and embrace it.

The self-actualized are a rare breed. They know who they are. They look in the mirror and see it clear. They're creative, seeing the world in ways others can't. And they're free, unchained by conventions, dancing to their own tune.

They also connect. They feel the ties that bind us all. They see the big picture, the unity of life, and embrace it with open arms.

It's a lifelong journey. There are no easy shortcuts, no quick fixes. Therapy and self-reflection both help, but it's the pursuit that matters. The chase, the struggle – that's what molds us.

In the end, it's what gives meaning to life. It's what makes us who we truly are.

Douglas Nelson

I’m over fifty and I’ve built a few things. Perhaps my experience can be of service to you when you’re at a crossroads.

https://dpnelson.com
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